Originally Posted by James Lacey
Please, admit that Trump is a childish name-calling bully and a pathological lying toddler. At this point, any other position sounds self-serving and delusional.
Hi James:
I'm not Mel of course, but your inquiry prompted a line of thought.
I'd admit on this forum that Trump is a name-calling bully and liar. Some of his actions do appear childish as well. Here is one problem with admitting this - the media, our celebrity/sports culture, and perhaps more importantly, our social media immediately jump to value judgments about
us as individuals if we support Trump in any way. The reasoning that is rained down upon Republicans
every day is:
You must be a racist to support a racist.
You must be a hypocrite to support a liar.
You must be a woman-hater to support a misogynist.
You must be a fool to support an incompetent.
To be a Republican in 2020 is to suffer under a relentless, constant barrage of profoundly hypocritical false dilemma fallacy attacks. It would be impossible for an adult Republican to express his political views on a Facebook account without first having carefully curated a circle of only sycophant friends. I genuinely pity the college student who is a conservative and expresses herself.
Meanwhile, we Republicans, (like most Ds) contemplate many complicated and important issues:
Who will have better tax and defense policy, Hillary Clinton or Donald Trump?
Who is more likely to advance my preferred policies on gun control or abortion, Clinton or Trump?
Who will nominate judges I agree with, Clinton or Trump?
And so much more.
According to the Vegas bookmakers we will soon get to contemplate the choice of socialist Bernie Sanders vs. Donald Trump. I resent the fact that my sisters-in-law
literally think less of me because I supported Trump last time, when there were many policy reasons for my vote against Clinton that had nothing to do with Trump's personal failings. Meanwhile, I look at the economy and foreign affairs and I am generally satisfied with my choice on the macro level, even though my candidate is perhaps personally indefensible.
We all deal with the relentless attacks in different ways. Some double and triple down and attack those who attack them. They attack the press. They brawl. They escalate. They defend the indefensible.
Others like me rationalize and equivocate, I try to convince this forum that the system is bigger and more robust than Trump. In real life I lay low and do
not talk politics with liberal friends or family. I'm afraid of the personal backlash. I might suggest to the sisters-in-law that it is on them if the D party nominates a socialist though! I always remain confident that the USA will be OK under 4 more years of DJT, and I tell myself that we will do fine under Klobuchar, Bloomberg or hopefully Buttigieg too.
Bottom line, I think it would be easier for Republicans to admit DJT's profound flaws if the press, the celebrities, the politicians, and maybe most importantly social media, did not constantly make horrifically derogatory and fundamentally hypocritical value judgments about all Republicans as individual human beings just because, as Republicans we unsurprisingly support Republican governance.
I'm sure it cuts both ways. We are living in the most polarized times since the civil war "they" say. I suppose that is true, although I was just a child in the 60's and I think there was plenty of polarization then too. I'm not sure how we transcend the divisions, and unfortunately, it will probably take a crisis. According to the historical 538 graphs we posted the other day, the last time the nation was very briefly united behind a president was 9/11. I suppose we are blessed to be living in times where we have the luxury of deep division. That was not a luxury our grandparents had in the 1940's.
Jim