Darien…
I like to joke that all my educated relatives left Louisiana a long time ago :-)
Actually, my father's side of the family has been in LA for >150 years. I have/had relatives in Epps, Monroe, Ruston, Haughton, Alexandria, Baton Rouge, Lake Charles, Belle Chasse, etc. These include—active or retired—a pharmacist, a pastor, a college professor/dean, a petroleum engineer, a major league pitcher/pitching coach (Billy Muffett…a relative by marriage), a roughneck, several soy bean farmers (one fought in the Battle of the Bulge), and a bunch I can’t remember.
I have been to LA twice: 1973 for a family reunion (we took Amtrak from CA) and 1980 for my grandfather’s funeral. I have little desire to go back. My impressions: LA is a beautiful state…from the inside of an air conditioned car. The 114°F and 15% relative humidity we sometimes get here in Fresno pales in comparison to the 102°F and 98% relative humidity we found in Monroe when we landed in 1980…then we got 3” of rain. Most distrssing to me, though, was the blatant prejudice and even outright racism, including in my extended family. That and the abject poverty I saw along the train trestle in the swamps near Houma (e.g. shacks the size of a walk-in closet housing a family of four…and every family was black).
My dad was born in Shreveport in ought-33, but my grandfather moved the family out to Long Beach, CA, a few weeks later. Even though my grandparents lived in Southern CA for 40 years, they never abandoned their prejudice (fairly strong, but not the worst). My father, however, rejected prejudice (the horror!), but his sister embraced a mild version. My parents believed, and I was raised to believe, that race was a distinction not worth making. I found my grandparent’s attitude somewhere between pathetic and humerous and told them so. Among the relatives I met on my two trips, the only ones I can say who were definitely not prejudiced were the pastor and his family (in fact, one his boys was suspended from school in about 3rd grade for sharing his lunch with a black friend…suspended until the pastor raised holy hell) and a second cousin who is a born-again Christian…and half Italian, as if that matters.
…to be continued…
Fred