Originally Posted by Robert Cuoccio
Yes he replied on Astro more messages I don’t have his email I sent the money through Venmo because he didn’t have a PayPal but I know the persons name that I sent it to
So if I read you right you are saying he contacted you via the private messages here on AM rather than responding to your ad directly. That is why you dont have his email address. When someone responds to your ad by clicking on the "Reply to ad" button you are sent an email message to the address you have registered on your account. Then when you respond to it, it goes directly to their registered email address......If someone contacts you without responding directly to the ad that should throw up a big red flag, particularly if they wont respond via the ad when asked to. I do hope the name he gave you for Venmo matched the user name he is registered here with......if not that is another big red flag.
1. The above was the 1st mistake, you should have asked him to respond via the ad. That way you both get to enter feedback on the transaction.
2. The 2nd was if he has only had an account for a short while he may not have had any feedback or very little. Those are the ones you need to be careful of.
3. The 3rd was agreeing to use a payment service that offers no protection like Venmo....particularly given both 1 and 2.
Lots of red flags on this one......You may have to just chalk this one up to lessons learned for a price. Just make sure you give all the info you have on him to Herb (particularly the user name he has here) as he asked above. At least that way he wont be doing it to anyone else going forward.
I noted you also said you have bought and sold on AM for many years now with no problem but your account shows you have only been here since mid 2020......and your feedback only has ratings for one transaction. Seems a bit contradictory with your statement.