It was a bit interesting to compare the statements about how different observers are able to see galactic detail. The number of participants is limited, of course, and the "statistics" presented here shouldn't be taken too seriously. Some general trends are, however, obvious.
The aperture range is huge - from 63mm and up to 40 inches (about 1000mm). The advantage of large aperture for galactic detail is obvious, and hardly a surprise.
Here is the list of objects ordered from "easy" to "difficult" based on your reports:
M82, dust bands
M31, one dust band
M64, obscuring cloud
M51, spiral arms
NGC891, equatorial dust band
M31, two dust bands
M33, emission nebula NGC604
M101, spiral arms
NGC4565, equatorial dust band
NGC 3628, equatorial dust band
M51, bridge to companion
NGC4656, "bend"
M101, emission nebulae
M99, spiral arms
NGC2903, spiral arms
NGC3556, dust bands
NGC2403, spiral arms
M61, spiral arms
M100, spiral arms.
To some extent this is in accordance with my own experience, but I noted some deviations. Many observers claim to have seen the equatorial dust band of NGC891, while the dust band of NGC4565 is further down on the list. I would consider the dust band of NGC891 and the "bend" of NGC4656 to be about equally difficult. The reason for the different rating may be that NGC891 is more frequently observed. I would even consider the spiral arms of M61 to be in the same league as the dust band of 891.
I also find the obscuring clouds of NGC3556 (M108) to be pretty obvious even with smaller aperture, while I always had problems with the "black eye", M64.
The deviations may partly be explained by the way the final rating was calculated. I simply multiplied the number of "A"s by 3, "B"s by 2 and "C"s by 1 and added everything together. Less frequently observed objects, therefore, got too low scores.
The "bottom 5" objects ranked by popularity are:
M61
NGC2903
NGC4656
NGC3556
NGC2403
These are all very good objects. Have a closer look at them, and don't forget to report your observations under this forum!
Inge S