Rod,
Although you may feel that your evening was "ruined" I thank you for being generous with your time, knowledge, and equipment and sharing the sky with those boy scout kids. I am sure that they have never seen the sky like it must have been that night - and then to get to view through a big scope at those bright objects must have blown their socks off!
You never know, you might have just passed on the "bug" to one of those little kids.
I do know how you feel about not being able to enjoy the night the way you had planned - and I feel for you - I get out maybe 2-3 times a year now and I wouldn't particularly want to spend it with newbies (but I would if I had to) and I hope your kindness and generosity will be paid back unto you with many more dark, clear, steady skies (maybe even without bright lights and non-observers

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You're always welcome to come up to Lockwood as my guest, my Dad Larry's guest, or Floyd's guest... may not be as dark a skies but at least we turn off white lights at dusk!!
Have a good day!