These gay marriage threads always shock me because so many otherwise libertarian/conservative types are not willing to extend the whole package that is "civil marriage" to a well defined and fairly large class of citizens who are as capable of love and commitment as the rest of us.
There is never any more than a vague hint of harm to society and no real argument that it is necessary to keep civil marriage confined to a man and woman other than "that is the way we've always done it."
Obviously, the reasoning behind most everyone who is opposed to gay marriage is a religious conviction that homosexuality is immoral and thus the state should not be sanctioning immorality. No one ever says it that plainly though, I suppose this is because most of you acknowledge that there is nothing remotely like a consensus that homosexuality is immoral. You also acknowledge that this is a weak argument when the issue is civil marriage and equal protection under the laws.
Mark raises an interesting point regarding the state's authority to ban discrimination against gays in adoption, and thus effectively force the Catholic Church to adopt children out to gay couples. I think that the state might in fact have that authority because the state's interest is in the child and there is no evidence that gay parents are detrimental to a child merely because they are gay.
In this case the welfare of the child might trump the religious convictions of the adoption agency. Sometimes a state interest does trump religious freedom under the Constitution, for example JW parents are prohibited by law from denying their own childred transfusions. Even so, if the Church were to ask for an exemption, they'd probably get it.
Russ is always a gentleman, Jim, Brian, Doug, Mel - it's been fun and refreshingly civil.
I've no kind words for David... the "do you know right from wrong" schtick is a pain. I'm pretty sure that such cutesy sophistry reflects more poorly on you than it does me though...
Anyway, I have to say adieux to this thread now. It has been a huge time drain and soon Herb will come along and delete the whole thing. He always does.
So I'll part with a link to one of my proudest AstroMart moments - the day I changed Jim Babcock's mind on this issue. We have not heard from Jim Babcock in a few years, I hope he's OK. Some time ago he suffered a stroke caused by a blood clot released as he recovered from a serious leg wound caused by a terrorist IED in Iraq. Jim is a patriot, a libertarian and an extreme conservative.
http://www.astromart.com/forums/viewpost.asp?forum_post_id=680047&poll_id=&news_id=&page=
If only some of the rest of you were as reasonable.
Jim